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Guest post: Moving anywhere, especially overseas, is a life-altering and often challenging experience. Add children to the mix, and you’ve got yourself a recipe for disaster. Or so you’ve thought. In reality, moving abroad with kids, while at first quite emotional, can turn into a stress-free event for all parties involved. With the right approach, your children could even benefit from leaving their old life behind and starting a new someplace else. The following golden rules can help them achieve just that, as well as drastically ease the transition.

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Be honest

There’s nothing worse than lying to your children. Telling them the move is just temporary when you know it’s not will make matters worse! Just think about how devastated they find out the truth. Depriving them of saying goodbye to those they care about will shatter their tiny hearts to pieces.

You absolutely shouldn’t do that to your kids! Instead, be honest from the get-go and try to explain the situation as best you can. Do this in advance to allow them to process the information. Adverse reactions are to be expected, but they will blow over sooner or later. And who knows – your children may even surprise you by being ok with relocating overseas. You can never know unless you try.

Let your kids express their concerns and feelings.

Emotions are a natural part of the process. Chances are that even you, as an adult, are starting to experience nostalgia when thinking about the upcoming relocation. Children are no different. In fact, you may hide the feelings from the outside world, but the youngsters aren’t capable of that. And they shouldn’t be! Shoving everything inside is no way to handle the situation, as the volcano of emotions will eventually erupt.

Before the process of moving abroad with kids begins, let them know that they absolutely CAN talk to you about the concerns they may be having. If they are worried about transferring to a new school, explain that they will meet new friends there. They will explore different cultures, roam places they otherwise wouldn’t. If they are reluctant to say goodbye to their friends, assure them they will see them again and keep in touch through social media. Just listen to them and their reasonings, and treat them as equals while providing answers. The goal is for your children to feel like they have a say in the matter. While the relocation may be out of their hands, the way they deal with it certainly isn’t.

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Actively listen to your children and what they have to say. Respect their opinions and provide reassurance

Get the entire family involved

To ensure the success of your move, turn it into an enjoyable family event! Having fun while moving with kids is possible. While making preparations, think about what it is your loved ones can assist with. For example, children can sort their things and pack them into boxes. Depending on their age, they may also be capable of helping you decorate your new home, or at least, their rooms. By making them feel included, they will indeed adjust to the new normal faster.

Cherish the memories

Moving abroad with kids in no way equals leaving everything behind and never speaking of it again. Both you and your youngsters should cherish your old life, document memories, and talk to others about it. An album filled with photos reminding them of their previous life can provide solace whenever they feel down. Encourage them to make one, and if need be, assist them with it. There you have it! Another fun family activity to alleviate the relocation-induced sadness.

Respect the routine

No matter what you do, don’t change your children’s routine. Moving from one part of the world to the other is hard enough. Don’t make it harder than it has to be by disrupting the schedule the whole family is used to. Staying on track with the kids’ bedtime, meals, and weekend activities can prove tricky during a move. If unable to follow everything to the letter, reestablish the routine as soon as you settle into the new home. This will provide the kids with a sense of normalcy. Despite their lives drastically changing, some things remain the same. You would be surprised by the amount of reassurance this thought can bring to them.

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When moving abroad with kids, make sure you include them in the process. You can do so by letting them pack their own things.

Introduce the kids to films that relate to their current situation

Children are visual learners, which means that they pick up things faster if they can see them. To decrease the toll of moving abroad with kids, you can try showing them cartoons associated with the experience. Pixars’ animated film ”Inside Out” is an excellent example, as it explains the situation through the eyes of a young girl named Riley. She relocates from Minnesota to sunny San Francisco and, throughout the movie, learns to accept her new life. Seeing how others cope with the change of scenery may also help your young ones learn to do the same.

Prioritize health

Staying healthy should be the main priority, so focus on that while planning the move and executing it. Research health insurance options in the new country months before to ensure the whole family is covered from day one. It’s a widely known fact that relocations are stressful. Stress can cause our immune systems to become weak. Therefore, it’s essential to work on boosting them before the relocation day. Make sure that both you and your children get enough sleep, and take supplements if needed.

Mom adjusting her daughters mask.
Teach your children how to take care of themselves in midst of a pandemic relocation

Moving abroad with kids is a struggle in and of itself which the current pandemic further complicates. Be prepared for hours of mask-wearing and disinfecting, and instruct your children on how to do the same. It’s by carrying out preventive measures that your family will remain safe.

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