alittlebitsocial2 Picking an outfit for your child seems like a logical choice. You dress them appropriately for the weather conditions and situations, and they look well put together. It is hard to let go of that parental worry and control and let your child take the wheel. After all, we, as parents, know what’s best for them! But once you give them enough space to make their own decisions and develop a sense of individuality, you will be amazed to see their growth. Letting kids choose their own clothes means so much to them and could be an excellent parenting step to take now – and here is why.
Benefits of letting kids choose their own clothes
It encourages independence
Children are excellent observers and often want to show autonomy from their parents very early on. They are constantly developing a greater sense of independence, and there are many signs of this.
By the age of 3, independence refers primarily to practical issues. During this period, children need to do everything themselves (get dressed, eat, etc.). Between the ages of 4 and 5, their opinions become important, primarily about what interests them – where to go, what to eat, and, in many cases, what to wear. By developing independence, they also create a sense of responsibility and self-determination.
It stimulates their creativity.
If you choose an outfit for your child every day, especially while dressing them, you leave them out of the process. Dressing becomes a chore for them, something they do mechanically. That is why many children complain and fuss when you’re dressing them up.
Children are just beginning to explore the world at that age, and everything is exciting and intriguing. They like to draw, sing, dance, and play games – they are just bursting with creativity. Some ways to encourage it are by playing games together and designing their room inspiringly. Allowing them to dress alone gives them another area to be creative and use their imagination.
They acquire decision-making skills.
When you allow your children to decide what they want to wear, you lay the foundation for their decision-making and problem-solving skills. Your child will feel important if you ask for their ideas when choosing clothes. Even at 2 or 3, most children can decide whether or not they like a piece of clothing you have selected for them. It strengthens their ability to determine what they want and develop their opinions. Children need to be actively engaged in their own lives from an early age.
It develops a sense of individuality.
Self-expression in kids is something to be nurtured and celebrated. Do not impose your style on them. Another common mistake parents make is expecting their child always to like what they choose for them. Let them find out and voice what they like and how they want to be seen. You are not building a mini version of yourself; instead, you should guide them to become the best version of themselves. This will help them be more confident in the future and find a strong sense of identity.
Children want their outfits to be fun.
Clothes for toddlers don’t have to be modern or trendy. They surely can be, but primarily they should be fun! Let them mix and match: you will be amazed at what they come up with. From unique tees every kid will love, to special dresses, shorts and capes – you should give them fun options and enjoy the results! It might result in a good laugh, as well.
Less control = more room to grow
Respecting and paying attention to your children’s wishes does not mean they should always decide what to buy and wear. Of course, they should wear a jacket when it’s cold or reconsider wearing a pretty dress for a family day out. Letting kids choose their own clothes is not about letting them do whatever they want – you involve them in the process by showing that you care about their opinion.
Letting go of the steering wheel a bit gives your wee one enough room to develop and prosper. You can offer them choices and see what they pick (and intervene if you must!). Not turning every situation into a battle is important – have fun with it and with them!
It makes it easier for the parent.
You struggle every morning with dressing your kid up and going out the door. Or maybe they occasionally throw tantrums before agreeing to put the outfit on and get moving. Whatever the case is, letting them be more independent will do you good.
We all know how challenging it is to get the whole family in the car and on the way to whatever needs to be done. In those moments, every second counts. If you let your kids choose their clothes, you will not have to spend all that time convincing them to put the outfit on. This helps you maintain your peace and calm, as well. Children that have overbearing parents are often afraid to make mistakes. Being a calm parent can have tremendous benefits on your child’s development.
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We insist on a piece of clothing that the child doesn’t like because it’s a gift from grandma. We want everything in their outfit to match, so we plan it. But, sometimes, we should ease the grip and encourage them to decide for themselves.
After you’ve read about all these positive sides to letting kids choose their clothes, we hope you will try this idea. You will be amazed to see your youngsters develop a sense of style and express themselves. When you establish a supporting connection early on, you set a base for a trusting bond for life.
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Hmm.. you know what? You just made me realize that letting kids to pick their own wardrobe is obviously a more convenient thing to do as we don’t have to think about what they prefer. I’ve been thinking of getting my nephew’s daughter a nice set of attire for her birthday next week. I’ll certainly use this tip so I’ll purchase the right items.